Thursday, October 31, 2013

Halloween 2013

We had such a great Halloween this year.
Scott really got into it.
He was loving the dressing up and the scary stories and the creepy decorations and freaky and funny monsters.
Everyday about 20 times a day he asked if it was Halloween.
We would look at the calender and change the count down everyday but he still hated the wait.
We got to go to a Halloween party for his school at Gardener Village and then have a trunk or treat after.
Oh how he loved that and I considered it a great rehearsal for the real thing.
Last year it was a complete head ache to get Scott to wear his costume and to walk up to houses and see people he didn't know.
After a while he learned it could be rewarding but it was quite stressful for Mark and I.
This year it was the opposite.
Such a relief.
We went to the Smith's up in Ogden on Halloween with many of our other friends and had a soup party for dinner.
After we all went trick or treating together.
Eventually the older kids got ahead and most of the husbands went back to the Smith's for some game that was on.
Oh but not before Scott got scared by the warewoves.
So I'll tell you how bad of parents Mark and I are.
Scott looks at life as facts.
He knows that there are dinosaurs that eat other dinosaurs and some that eat plants.
He doesn't look at the T Rex as being bad just that he needs to eat.
He knows that animals eat other animals and even that some attack people.
He is fine with this.
Well with Halloween he started asking questions about monsters.
What do they eat and where do they live are the most asked questions.
He just likes to learn and know that kinda stuff.
So we told him, having confidence that he would except it the same way he takes dinosaurs and animal.
In our defense we also let him know that the monsters weren't real, they were fake.
So he knows that Duracula is a vampire who drinks blood and lives in a castle.
He knows that zombies eat brains and live in the graveyard.
He knows that ghosts don't eat anything but they just go around saying boo (we got less creative coming up with answers after a while).
He also knows that warewolves eat people and live in the forest.
He has had no problem excepting these things and not batting an eye or having bad nightmares or anything.
So on Halloween night when he saw the back of two teenage boys big hairy masks he was very excited to tell us they we warewolves.
But when he turned back at them at the exact moment they turned around to reveal the front of their full face masks that looked all too real he screamed bloody murder and ran right into my arms crying.
Mark and Melissa and I were stunned for a milasecond and then started laughing.
We had never seen Scott scared and we had never seen such a poster child of scared outside of the movies.
It really was funny.
But sadly not to Scott.
Looking back I feel bad as his mother that I didn't take it more seriously.
He was genunionly horrified.
It took probably a full minute, maybe more, to get him to stop sobbing.
Then another little while for us to explain it was just fake.
He eventually started back up again but he was much more cautious and had a harder time with houses that were decorated a lot.
He got scared one other time by a girl with some very realistic skeleton make up on but she was nice and took the long ruit away from the house so he wouldn't see her again and her friends came over and said sorry and even gave him a piece of their candy.
It was a sad and still kinda funny Halloween memory that had to go down in the books.
Anyway, as usual, we were so busy having fun and taking care of the kids that I didn't take any pictures.
But here's one from the trunk or treat.

Monday, October 28, 2013

School Pics

Scott having one of his preschools in an elementry school means we get to take school pictures.
This and the bus are some of my favorite things about him already in the public school system.
Here's this years.


Last year it fell on a day that wasn't his normal school day so I took him in and helped him through the anxiety that new experiences bring.
This year it fell on a school day and I just sent him off.
I can tell you exactly what they said that brought this smile out.
"Smile!"
Now if they had said "cheese" they would have gotten his normal smile but over the last month or two he has picked this to be his smile on command.
I thought about doing retakes and trying to get the natural smile out of him but seriously this is cute.
I love this snap shot of a memory that I might have forgotten down the road.
Let's face it, every child practices fake smiles.
I just can't help loving this kid and all his quarks.

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Autumn

Look at this cute kid.
I just love this boy so much and I love the little person he's turning into.
One of the favorite things is getting to experience life with him.
Welcome Autumn!

Monday, October 21, 2013

More Cousins for Scott

Luke and April had their third baby.
Look how perfect this little guy is.
His name is Owen Griffin McEvoy.
He was born October 15 weighing in at 7 lbs 3 oz.
I got to go visit him a week later.
Can I just say holding a brand new baby when I'm pregnant was a weird experience.
I just can't wait to be done and have my little guy out of me.
Owen's older brother is really close in age to Scott and Owen and Scott's little brother will be even closer in age.
I can't wait for these two cousins to start playing together.

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Halloween Fun

Last year we went to the pumpkin patch and sure, it was fun but all we did was pay way too much to walk around a muddy field and pick out a pumpkin.
This year I wanted more.
So we went to Cornbellies and Thanksgiving Point.
It did NOT disappoint, as if Thanksgiving point could.
We went with the Krommenhookes.
We all have the best time with them.
There was so much for the kids to do and it wasn't cheesy or boring for the adults either.
I was a bit worried that Scott might get over whelmed but he was a champ.
This kid is walked in like he owned it and had no problem going from one activity to the next.
The only fit we got that night was when it was time to leave and say goodbye to Jeff, Amber, Jade and Tatum who he always hates leaving.
I think I loved most of all that Mark got to see Scott have the time of his life and play with him.
I take Scott to the fun places usually and get to see the happy Scott and by the time Make comes home Scott is all tuckered out and cranky.
The other nice thing was that Mark and Jeff took charge of the kids and left Amber and I to just fall back and chat.
For those who haven't been, you really need to put it on your holiday to do list next year.
I think it just became our Halloween tradition.

Saturday, October 12, 2013

Quick Trip

October is full of trips for Mark.
Two business trips and hunting with a lot of hunting prep days to take Mark away from us.
Not used to sharing him so much and Scott and I weren't happy about it.
So in between all the trips was a long weekend that we wanted to make the most out of.
We originally thought we would go visit a National Park but then the government shut down and so the parks closed.
Don't get me started on the injustice there.
But my parents rented a cabin for us at Yuba Lake.
I'd never even heard of it.
It was too cold to swim but we got to take a beautiful and kinda cold walk around the lake.
Scott loved being with Grandma and Grandpa and Natalie.
It felt good get away, even if just for a night.

We had such a great time Mom and Dad are thinking of making this the place of our next family camp trip this summer.
I sure hope so.

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Fun with Carter


This sweet little guy next to Scott is Carter.
He is one of Scott's favorite friends and one of his few friends that are boys.
Carter is very special to our family.
Not only does he make Scott so happy but his mom helps me to be happy.
While Scott was growing up and we started having questions it was hard to get answers from those around me.
All my friends that had children Scott's age were girls.
I heard lots of, "He's a boy, boys develop slower then girls."
But something that always helped was when Sedra would post something about Carter, she was one of the few friends that had a boy.
Our friendship began when my family moved to Utah and she was in my Young Womens group at good ol' Alpine 4th Ward.
She was a year older then me and we weren't incredibly close then.
But thanks to facebook we reconnected.
Our boys we found out were very similar.
Eventually we got together and started to text and call back and forth.
We have helped one another through some pretty rough spots that few understand.
The great thing about these boys is that they are so easy for us to love because we have come to understand them and when we don't understand them we still love them.
It is such a blessing to have a wonderful friend like Carter and Sedra.
They totally get this Crazy Ellis Family.